Advance Planning
Ask yourself - 'what would happen if I died yesterday'?
Take the time to think about what your wishes are and how prepared you are for the end of life. We can look at a variety of things, from practical preparations to planning your own funeral. It may take away some of the fear, and give you peace of mind. Help ensure that when you die it is as easy as possible for your loved ones. I can work with individuals and small groups. My style is relaxed and conversational. Lets talk, and work things out together.
Advance planning can include some or all of these areas:
Your will - is it up to date?
Establishing a DNACPR order (Do Not Resuscitate) if you want one.
Tying up your loose ends / death cleaning / housekeeping and practical matters for the various areas of your life.
Setting up Lasting Powers of Attorney for Health & Welfare, and/or Property and Finance.
Gaining an understanding of what 'normal dying' looks like.
Funeral planning - talking through what you do and don't want for your funeral.
Setting up an Advance Decision to Refuse Treatment with a supporting Advance Statement.
Talking through your last wishes and what might feel important to you.
A bit more about funeral planning
What to think about
You don't have to be facing death to think about a funeral. A little planning and forward thinking can save you time, money and distress.
If you would like some help with thinking about and planning your own funeral we can meet, talk through your thoughts and your wishes, discuss options. I would then write it up for you. Please note, that this is not a legally binding document but more of a statement of wishes. I always suggest that you use this as a stepping stone to talk to your family and friends so that they better understand your wishes.
Legally there are three things that need to happen after someone dies.
1: have the death certified
2: register the death - in the UK this must be done within 5 days of the person dying
3: the person will need to be either cremated or buried
After that the options are endless
Where do I start?
Small steps and at a gentle pace
This work takes time and can be easier with someone at your side. It so helpful if you have a friend who may be doing this at the same time. I'm happy to work with you on a one-to-one basis, or I can work with two people at the same time.
At times these steps can evoke deep emotions which is partly why I believe it is so important, if possible, to do as much as we can of this work whilst we are well.
Why is it so important?
Grief can be an overwhelming experience. Having taken steps towards having our affairs in order is a loving and considered gift to those who are left behind.
I have seen families at a complete loss, struggling to know how to manage things. Dealing with a persons affairs after they have died can be upsetting even when things are in order. Being organised will better enables our loved ones to focus on their grieving, to be more present with their feelings, without being distracted by worry.
Speaking for myself, after I got my documents in order, I felt a huge sense of relief. My family know where my documents are, everything is in one place. And if I want to make any changes I can easily find what I need myself!
How much will it cost?
Please see my pricing page internal://8e216952-273f-4677-99da-4beb31b648a9